Let's say you text a girl good morning. What she feels when you do this is "wow" he must really be into me to be texting a girl first thing in the morning. If you do this every morning, she is going to come to expect it, or she could very well tire of it. Most girls like an occasional "Good Morning" text, but less is more really. Don't do it every day, she will see you as too available, and nothing kills attraction like being too available.
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When texting girls, also what are you saying. Are you calling her beautiful? Using the same old lines we hear over and over. If I get one more "Hello Beautiful", I personally just might scream. We girls roll our eyes and think, can't he be original? Is this the best he can do?
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When texting a girl, don't go overboard. Don't do it too often. When you are constantly texting, again she sees you as maybe desperate, needy and too availble. Girls like guys, enjoy a challenge. Be unpredictable, this puts her on that roller coaster ride of adrenaline surges. If she never knows when or what to expect with your text messages, the attraction tension in heightened.
When texting girls, be fun, flirty, and a bit unpredictable. Keep her guessing. Make her smile, and be original. Put some thought into what you say and when you say it. If you have a great text message in your mind that you want to send, wait, hold onto it. In other words, don't be so anxious to hit the send button.
Dating now is evolving. Text messaging is the biggest tool available to gain and heighten attraction. I have seen guys turn their dating life around by learning to use this tool to their advantage. Knowing the buttons and triggers of women and how to push them via text messaging can triple your dating success.
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Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Friday, March 19, 2010
Dreadful Dating
I am an active member on a ladies forum. Hundreds if not thousands of women communicate daily from all over the world on this board. A topic that comes up often is online dating and the frustrations we feel. Below is just on of hundreds of excerpts from this board regarding men and online dating.
Yes...I can imagine a guy taking his Match.com picture. He takes 20 different pictures. Then out of those 20 pictures, not to mention all the other pictures he has had taken of him in his 30 years of existence, he chooses the one that is the most out of focus, with the camera up his nostrils, with the color totally off, where you can still see his arm in the picture, with him scowling like a serial rapist, to be his main photo to attract women with online.
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Seriously....how can SO MANY MEN be SO CLUELESS? Can't they tell what a decent picture of them is versus a not so decent picture? I would never put a picture up on Match.com that I would be afraid to frame and put on my dresser. So why do guys, in what is supposed to be an ADVERTISEMENT for themselves to potentially find the love of their life, or at the very least someone to have sex with, pick the most horrid, unflattering pictures to represent themselves with?
Or there's 5 pictures of them in a group, where you can't even tell which guy is which. Or there's pictures with their ex-girlfriend, where they've clearly tried to crop her out...but missed her shoulder or her arm. Or there's 10 pictures of sunsets and beaches, not to mention their car or bicycle, and pet dog, but not a SINGLE PICTURE of their face!
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And so many profiles are three sentences long and say absolutely nothing about themselves or what they want. "I'm a laid-back, fun-loving, nice guy who is fun to be around. Looking for an adventurous, attractive girl, who is fun to hang out with and likes doing cool stuff." Really? I think the guy might be, like 18, who wrote it, and then I look at the age and he's 38. Really? At the age of 38, this is all you have to say about yourself?
And guys complain that girls don't write to them and they have to do all the work...
Ugh!!!
I will get off my soapbox now.
I've signed up as a Member of Match.com, not a subscriber yet, so I can peruse a little bit and build up my favorites before paying for the subscription. I have probably looked at 200 profiles. Of the 200, I only found 2 that I liked, that looked like they were written by someone with half a brain. I have about 6 others on there that are okay, maybe possibilities. That's it. Nearly all the rest of the profiles and pictures looked like they were posted by someone with a severe mental handicap.
It is immensely frustrating, as I have expanded my search range to include from 28 to 43 (I am 29), and up to 30 miles away (which is an ETERNITY away in Los Angeles), and I have so few options, on the world's largest dating site.
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Whew. But, I have to remember...back when I was online dating last year...the best guys I met were all from Match. Didn't have the right chemistry with them, but at least they were nice, smelled okay, could put a sentence together, and could spell. A couple of them were really funny. So I'm trying to focus on the mostly positive experience I had with Match in the past rather than the fear and frustration I am feeling right now!!
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As a recently married woman told me once: "You're not looking for 100 or 50 or 10 great guys. You're only looking for ONE. Focus on that. You can find ONE great guy." Easier said than done, but I'm not giving up!
Yes...I can imagine a guy taking his Match.com picture. He takes 20 different pictures. Then out of those 20 pictures, not to mention all the other pictures he has had taken of him in his 30 years of existence, he chooses the one that is the most out of focus, with the camera up his nostrils, with the color totally off, where you can still see his arm in the picture, with him scowling like a serial rapist, to be his main photo to attract women with online.
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Seriously....how can SO MANY MEN be SO CLUELESS? Can't they tell what a decent picture of them is versus a not so decent picture? I would never put a picture up on Match.com that I would be afraid to frame and put on my dresser. So why do guys, in what is supposed to be an ADVERTISEMENT for themselves to potentially find the love of their life, or at the very least someone to have sex with, pick the most horrid, unflattering pictures to represent themselves with?
Or there's 5 pictures of them in a group, where you can't even tell which guy is which. Or there's pictures with their ex-girlfriend, where they've clearly tried to crop her out...but missed her shoulder or her arm. Or there's 10 pictures of sunsets and beaches, not to mention their car or bicycle, and pet dog, but not a SINGLE PICTURE of their face!
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And so many profiles are three sentences long and say absolutely nothing about themselves or what they want. "I'm a laid-back, fun-loving, nice guy who is fun to be around. Looking for an adventurous, attractive girl, who is fun to hang out with and likes doing cool stuff." Really? I think the guy might be, like 18, who wrote it, and then I look at the age and he's 38. Really? At the age of 38, this is all you have to say about yourself?
And guys complain that girls don't write to them and they have to do all the work...
Ugh!!!
I will get off my soapbox now.
I've signed up as a Member of Match.com, not a subscriber yet, so I can peruse a little bit and build up my favorites before paying for the subscription. I have probably looked at 200 profiles. Of the 200, I only found 2 that I liked, that looked like they were written by someone with half a brain. I have about 6 others on there that are okay, maybe possibilities. That's it. Nearly all the rest of the profiles and pictures looked like they were posted by someone with a severe mental handicap.
It is immensely frustrating, as I have expanded my search range to include from 28 to 43 (I am 29), and up to 30 miles away (which is an ETERNITY away in Los Angeles), and I have so few options, on the world's largest dating site.
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Whew. But, I have to remember...back when I was online dating last year...the best guys I met were all from Match. Didn't have the right chemistry with them, but at least they were nice, smelled okay, could put a sentence together, and could spell. A couple of them were really funny. So I'm trying to focus on the mostly positive experience I had with Match in the past rather than the fear and frustration I am feeling right now!!
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As a recently married woman told me once: "You're not looking for 100 or 50 or 10 great guys. You're only looking for ONE. Focus on that. You can find ONE great guy." Easier said than done, but I'm not giving up!
Monday, February 22, 2010
Dating Profile Tips for Men
First of the dating profile tips for men would be no negatives. We don't want to hear about how bad you were treated by the women before us. This tells us you have some serious baggage and chances are good you are not over the "ex" yet. We assume you don't want to play games, so why put that in your profile? That really is a no brainer. Seriously have you ever seen an online dating profile that said, "I love to play games"?
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Second of the dating profile tips for men would be cut all the crap about how honest, warm, loving sincere, loyal and wonderful you are. Honestly almost every profile says this and it gets quite mundane. We have read that so much that we just skip over the part hoping that somewhere in the next paragraph you will have say something interesting.
Third of the dating profile tips for men would be leave out your cars, boats, motorcycles and airplanes. Materialistic are you? Such a turn off. Who cares? If women are responding to you because of your worldly possessions, really is that what you want? Also, please leave your shirt on, leave something for our imagination, we are not the visually stimulated creatures that you are. We connect on an emotional level.
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So what's left, we don't want your baggage, we don't want your wonderful qualities nor your material possissions, so what do we want. We want humor, and interesting. We don't mind knowing your taste in music and maybe what you like to do for fun. We want to know are you stable or maybe a bit on the wild side. What we want is a glimpse of your personality. Not some superficial words.
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Women are now approaching men more and more on dating sites making that first move. The picture helps, but when it comes to online dating, it's the profile we pay attention to. I might be doing a search and run across a divine hunk, but if his profile is lame, well I go next. Your profile is your first impression, don't blow it.
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Writing a good online profile is only the begining of the online dating game. Next is the email correspondence and how to actually get a date. It is not as simple as you would imagine, lots of rejection goes on with these online dating sites. Learn to get rejected more and get more dates.
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Second of the dating profile tips for men would be cut all the crap about how honest, warm, loving sincere, loyal and wonderful you are. Honestly almost every profile says this and it gets quite mundane. We have read that so much that we just skip over the part hoping that somewhere in the next paragraph you will have say something interesting.
Third of the dating profile tips for men would be leave out your cars, boats, motorcycles and airplanes. Materialistic are you? Such a turn off. Who cares? If women are responding to you because of your worldly possessions, really is that what you want? Also, please leave your shirt on, leave something for our imagination, we are not the visually stimulated creatures that you are. We connect on an emotional level.
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So what's left, we don't want your baggage, we don't want your wonderful qualities nor your material possissions, so what do we want. We want humor, and interesting. We don't mind knowing your taste in music and maybe what you like to do for fun. We want to know are you stable or maybe a bit on the wild side. What we want is a glimpse of your personality. Not some superficial words.
Click Here to discover how to have 7 Dates or more this month with attractive women
Women are now approaching men more and more on dating sites making that first move. The picture helps, but when it comes to online dating, it's the profile we pay attention to. I might be doing a search and run across a divine hunk, but if his profile is lame, well I go next. Your profile is your first impression, don't blow it.
Click Here to discover how to have 7 Dates or more this month with attractive women
Writing a good online profile is only the begining of the online dating game. Next is the email correspondence and how to actually get a date. It is not as simple as you would imagine, lots of rejection goes on with these online dating sites. Learn to get rejected more and get more dates.
Click Here to discover how to have 7 Dates or more this month with attractive women
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Facebook Flirting
It seems that facebook is a more practical place to meet singles as opposed to some of the free and paid dating sites. Instead of some fabricated profile that may or may not be true, you have the real personality to view in day to day interaction. You also have references in the form of facebook friends. What dating site has this? So how do you turn facebook into your own personal dating site? It starts with broadening your friends network and a little facebook flirting.
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You have to remember, friends have friends who have friends that have other single friends, brothers and sisters. The broader your network, the greater your chances are of finding romance. The broader your network the more opportunities you will have for flirting on facebook.
To flirt on facebook, you pay attention to the posters and commentors. It may not be the poster that gets your attention, but someone commenting. Toss in your own comment. Make it funny, witty and humorous to get the attention. The more you interact with friends and friends of friends, the bigger your playground for facebook flirting will become. The friend request will come. It does not hurt to make a few friend requests of your own either. What do you have to lose?
This process may not go along as rapidly as it could on a real on line dating site, as it will take much longer. Think of it this way. The wait creates anticipation and the anticipation creates a stronger attraction and bond. Flirting on facebook may not bring instant gratification, but it certainly increases your chances for long term satisfation.
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If you can send a flirty text message, you can surely practice some facebook flirting. If you are not skilled at sexting or sending flirty text messages, there are tons of resources out there to fine tune your skills, take advantage of them. Facebook flirting is fun!
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You have to remember, friends have friends who have friends that have other single friends, brothers and sisters. The broader your network, the greater your chances are of finding romance. The broader your network the more opportunities you will have for flirting on facebook.
To flirt on facebook, you pay attention to the posters and commentors. It may not be the poster that gets your attention, but someone commenting. Toss in your own comment. Make it funny, witty and humorous to get the attention. The more you interact with friends and friends of friends, the bigger your playground for facebook flirting will become. The friend request will come. It does not hurt to make a few friend requests of your own either. What do you have to lose?
This process may not go along as rapidly as it could on a real on line dating site, as it will take much longer. Think of it this way. The wait creates anticipation and the anticipation creates a stronger attraction and bond. Flirting on facebook may not bring instant gratification, but it certainly increases your chances for long term satisfation.
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If you can send a flirty text message, you can surely practice some facebook flirting. If you are not skilled at sexting or sending flirty text messages, there are tons of resources out there to fine tune your skills, take advantage of them. Facebook flirting is fun!
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Do Women Play Hard to Get?
The fact of the matter is, yes a lot of girls play hard to get. With all of the relationship material out there available at the click of the mouse, more and more girls are learning this technique of "playing hard to get". It's really not a bad thing, it is usually the quality girls that do this. They are looking for a quality guy.
In a girl's mind, if a guy will make a little extra effort to get past her little game, then he may be worth it or a good guy. That really is how we see it. It's not that we want to play these games, we just want a guy who is willing to put in a little extra work to get us. That way we know he really is interested and not just some guy out for one night or something casual.
We want to feel important and special, we are women, it's natural. We don't want to do all the leading, we want the man to lead. When we are not playing a bit hard to get, we are usually doing the calling, initiating and it just does not feel right. We want to be chased.
It gets rather complicated though. The relationship gurus give out the same advice to guys that they do girls. How can we ever meet in the middle. How do you know she is playing hard to get or if she is not that into you?
A girl playing hard to get will not accept a last minute date. She will not answer the phone after a certain hour, say 10 p.m. She will not call or text you first. She is setting her boundaries in the beginning and seriously wouldn't you rather have a girl with boundaries?
If you call in ample time and she accepts or she picks up the phone when you call at a decent hour, chances are good, she is interested, but just wants you to come and get her. It's every woman's fantasy you know. So yes, smart women do play hard to get. The more desperate ones usually don't. Which one do you want?
What do girls/women really want? Do nice guys finish last? What is it that gets them attracted? How do you keep that attraction going?
In a girl's mind, if a guy will make a little extra effort to get past her little game, then he may be worth it or a good guy. That really is how we see it. It's not that we want to play these games, we just want a guy who is willing to put in a little extra work to get us. That way we know he really is interested and not just some guy out for one night or something casual.
We want to feel important and special, we are women, it's natural. We don't want to do all the leading, we want the man to lead. When we are not playing a bit hard to get, we are usually doing the calling, initiating and it just does not feel right. We want to be chased.
It gets rather complicated though. The relationship gurus give out the same advice to guys that they do girls. How can we ever meet in the middle. How do you know she is playing hard to get or if she is not that into you?
A girl playing hard to get will not accept a last minute date. She will not answer the phone after a certain hour, say 10 p.m. She will not call or text you first. She is setting her boundaries in the beginning and seriously wouldn't you rather have a girl with boundaries?
If you call in ample time and she accepts or she picks up the phone when you call at a decent hour, chances are good, she is interested, but just wants you to come and get her. It's every woman's fantasy you know. So yes, smart women do play hard to get. The more desperate ones usually don't. Which one do you want?
What do girls/women really want? Do nice guys finish last? What is it that gets them attracted? How do you keep that attraction going?
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Asking a Girl Out
This topic was recently addressed in a group on facebook. It consisted of women advising men on how to ask a girl out and what does and does not impress here. The posts are as follows.
Natasha: Girls, I am starting to write manual for boys for how to get a date with a real girl. I posted on my personal page and got gret advice, so I thought I could post here to get more input.
In fact, I think we should all write it together and post it here and on Robin's group "What the hell women want"
Few simple rules to start with:
1. If you want to get her phone number, ask for it. Be brave and say the words: " May I ( Can I) have your phone number please?" Be sincere and only ask if you intend on calling. Don't wait for her to offer her number and if she doesn't, feel rejected. Remember, you haven't asked.
Caroline: When you get her number call her, don't wait days and weeks. If she gave it to you, she is interested, nothing ventured nothing gained.
Natasha: Yes, the key is act like a man, not project your insecurities to her.
Ask for the number like you mean it and mean it. Call without waiting and be open and playful. Keep it light and don't jump into sexual innuendos the first time you are talking to a girl, unless she is paid to do that.
Caroline: There are 900 numbers for that, and websites.
Next just ask her out, just do it. A real date, not ya wanna come over and hang out. That is if you want a real girl. A quality girl and we are assuming that you do know the difference
Natasha: Make sure you are giving her few days advance and choice of time and place. Don't just say you will take her anywhere she wants. Have a plan A and B and tell her what you have in mind. Try to find out while talking, what her preferences are, but if you don't know, just be neutral. Don't offer to take her to places where you hang out with your guys. You want this time to be just for the two of you.
Caroline: We hate the what do you want to do, I dunno, what do you want to do. Just do it. One of the best dates I had in a while we went to the state fair, it was a blast. Something that requires interaction, it helps build attraction, NO MOVIES PLEASE!
Natasha: Mind your manners. You don't have to be stiff, but be respectful. Don't try to fill her out, squeeze a kiss and look in her blouse. Light touching is OK. Think how you would want a guy to act if he was on a date with your sister.
Caroline: Look in her eyes not at her breasts, please. Touch her hair once, lightly is ok.
Natasha: About 90 % of the girls are NOT interested in your truck, bike, boat.
Instead, wear nice shoes and socks. That impresses girls more on a first date.
Susie: "Yes" re the shoes... very important!
Caroline: I could care less what he drives, the fact that he will come to my door and actually pick me up, open the door for me is far more important.
Natasha: If you are picking her up (some girls will not be comfortable on a first date to show you where they live), make sure your car is not full of junk on the front seat. It maybe a good idea to clear the front seat just in case you end up driving together somewhere after you meet.
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This discussion is still going and will be updated at a later date.
There is a group just started on facebook called "What the hell do women want" Feel free to check it out and join.
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Natasha: Girls, I am starting to write manual for boys for how to get a date with a real girl. I posted on my personal page and got gret advice, so I thought I could post here to get more input.
In fact, I think we should all write it together and post it here and on Robin's group "What the hell women want"
Few simple rules to start with:
1. If you want to get her phone number, ask for it. Be brave and say the words: " May I ( Can I) have your phone number please?" Be sincere and only ask if you intend on calling. Don't wait for her to offer her number and if she doesn't, feel rejected. Remember, you haven't asked.
Caroline: When you get her number call her, don't wait days and weeks. If she gave it to you, she is interested, nothing ventured nothing gained.
Natasha: Yes, the key is act like a man, not project your insecurities to her.
Ask for the number like you mean it and mean it. Call without waiting and be open and playful. Keep it light and don't jump into sexual innuendos the first time you are talking to a girl, unless she is paid to do that.
Caroline: There are 900 numbers for that, and websites.
Next just ask her out, just do it. A real date, not ya wanna come over and hang out. That is if you want a real girl. A quality girl and we are assuming that you do know the difference
Natasha: Make sure you are giving her few days advance and choice of time and place. Don't just say you will take her anywhere she wants. Have a plan A and B and tell her what you have in mind. Try to find out while talking, what her preferences are, but if you don't know, just be neutral. Don't offer to take her to places where you hang out with your guys. You want this time to be just for the two of you.
Caroline: We hate the what do you want to do, I dunno, what do you want to do. Just do it. One of the best dates I had in a while we went to the state fair, it was a blast. Something that requires interaction, it helps build attraction, NO MOVIES PLEASE!
Natasha: Mind your manners. You don't have to be stiff, but be respectful. Don't try to fill her out, squeeze a kiss and look in her blouse. Light touching is OK. Think how you would want a guy to act if he was on a date with your sister.
Caroline: Look in her eyes not at her breasts, please. Touch her hair once, lightly is ok.
Natasha: About 90 % of the girls are NOT interested in your truck, bike, boat.
Instead, wear nice shoes and socks. That impresses girls more on a first date.
Susie: "Yes" re the shoes... very important!
Caroline: I could care less what he drives, the fact that he will come to my door and actually pick me up, open the door for me is far more important.
Natasha: If you are picking her up (some girls will not be comfortable on a first date to show you where they live), make sure your car is not full of junk on the front seat. It maybe a good idea to clear the front seat just in case you end up driving together somewhere after you meet.
Click Here to discover how to have 7 Dates or more this month with attractive women
This discussion is still going and will be updated at a later date.
There is a group just started on facebook called "What the hell do women want" Feel free to check it out and join.
Click Here To Access the Dating Secrets Community
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
What Do Women Really Want in a Man
So what do women want in a man. Women are emotional creatures and first you need to understand the we are not visually stimulated. Not that a handsome face won't catch our eye, but he could open his mouth and blow it all in the first sentence. A lot of men lack the confidence it takes to really get attention. Confidence is the number one thing women want in a man. There is nothing sexier than a confident man.
Now I am a woman and I recently signed up to an on line dating site. Now first you have to decide do you want a great woman or a desperate woman and I think you know the answer to that. I consider myself far from desperate, so let me first tell you what a confident, smart woman does on an on line dating site and in all areas for that matter. First she looks at your picture, then she reads your profile. Great women rarely contact you first.
Now day one, tons of hits. I weed through them, if there is no profile, I delete. If the profile talks about how you are looking for your soul mate, I delete, not that I am not looking for mine as well. It just sounds wimpy. Now I read the messages. How are you today? Delete. How is your day? Delete. What are you looking for in a man? Delete. What do you do for fun? Delete. Good morning beautiful or sexy. Delete. Can I have your phone number? Delete. The days is over and one guy survived the cut, the one guy that was funny, confident and the one guy that obviously took the time to get past the picture and read my profile. The one guy that made me smile instead of roll my eyes. Now what was it about that one guy that made me not delete? It wasn't his looks, he was average. It was his confidence and humor and the fact that he did not act desperate that came through in his messages.
Women don't like wimpy, mushy or over accommodating. Men often try to sell themselves by telling what they have, what they can offer, like honesty, love, devotion. Sure we want that, but that is not what is going to attract us to you so that we can discover your wonderful qualities without you having to tell us about them. What I mentioned above holds true in the real dating world as well as the on line dating world. Its about how you flirt with us and make us wanting more, whether its a direct approach, a text message or the way you ask us for a date. So what do women want in a man? We want someone fun who knows how to use body language and verbal language to get a woman's attention.
I am a female who has studied the way men and women interact for years. There are a lot of great men out there not getting the woman that they want because they are going at it all wrong. They don't understand what truly attracts a woman and make her dying to see you again and hang on your every word. There are skills and techniques that you can use that get you in the door and keep you in the door. Stop being the guy that turns into that great woman's friend and learn how to attract women and keep the attraction going. I speak for all the great ladies out there doing the single ladies dance.
Now I am a woman and I recently signed up to an on line dating site. Now first you have to decide do you want a great woman or a desperate woman and I think you know the answer to that. I consider myself far from desperate, so let me first tell you what a confident, smart woman does on an on line dating site and in all areas for that matter. First she looks at your picture, then she reads your profile. Great women rarely contact you first.
Now day one, tons of hits. I weed through them, if there is no profile, I delete. If the profile talks about how you are looking for your soul mate, I delete, not that I am not looking for mine as well. It just sounds wimpy. Now I read the messages. How are you today? Delete. How is your day? Delete. What are you looking for in a man? Delete. What do you do for fun? Delete. Good morning beautiful or sexy. Delete. Can I have your phone number? Delete. The days is over and one guy survived the cut, the one guy that was funny, confident and the one guy that obviously took the time to get past the picture and read my profile. The one guy that made me smile instead of roll my eyes. Now what was it about that one guy that made me not delete? It wasn't his looks, he was average. It was his confidence and humor and the fact that he did not act desperate that came through in his messages.
Women don't like wimpy, mushy or over accommodating. Men often try to sell themselves by telling what they have, what they can offer, like honesty, love, devotion. Sure we want that, but that is not what is going to attract us to you so that we can discover your wonderful qualities without you having to tell us about them. What I mentioned above holds true in the real dating world as well as the on line dating world. Its about how you flirt with us and make us wanting more, whether its a direct approach, a text message or the way you ask us for a date. So what do women want in a man? We want someone fun who knows how to use body language and verbal language to get a woman's attention.
I am a female who has studied the way men and women interact for years. There are a lot of great men out there not getting the woman that they want because they are going at it all wrong. They don't understand what truly attracts a woman and make her dying to see you again and hang on your every word. There are skills and techniques that you can use that get you in the door and keep you in the door. Stop being the guy that turns into that great woman's friend and learn how to attract women and keep the attraction going. I speak for all the great ladies out there doing the single ladies dance.
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last
Drama Queens excluded, yes women like nice guys. We just don't like doormats. Doormats meaning the men that try to be what they think we want. Confidence is the key word here. A man who knows what he wants, knows himself and likes himself. The man that makes us feel he can hold his own with grace. That is the man that makes a woman feel safe. A nice guy can be these things. So do nice guys finish last? No, I think not.
Then there are the men that try to sell themselves. They tell you all of their features and benefits. They tell you how they know how to treat a woman. Most of us women already learned not to put too much stock into a man's words, but to watch their actions and how they treat us. If they say they are going to call and don't, well the action said way more than the words. The action said we really aren't that important.
If that is the message you are trying to convey, fine, some drama queen will love you. Go find her. They are everywhere. I am writing this assuming you want a healthy stable relationship. A smart, emotionally balanced woman will not like a jerk, she will go with the nice guy providing he can stimulate her on an emotional level.
So how do you attract these smarter, balanced women? Do you have to play games? Well maybe not games, but being overly available and calling her 12 times a day and texting lame messages will begin to annoy her for sure. Please tell me you don't text her good morning beautiful, or sexy or something similar shortly after meeting her. Most of us roll our eyes at that because it happens all the time. You are not standing out. If you are going to send a text, by all means be creative and witty. Don't be like all the other guys.
Be a nice guy, but don't be one of the nice guys that finish last.
There are many creative ways to meet and attract women and still be a nice guy and not finish last. There is online dating, there is the cell phone which is a huge tool for you dating life. What you text and what you say when you use that phone can make or break an attraction. Learn to use these tools so that you will not be one of those nice guys that finish last.
Then there are the men that try to sell themselves. They tell you all of their features and benefits. They tell you how they know how to treat a woman. Most of us women already learned not to put too much stock into a man's words, but to watch their actions and how they treat us. If they say they are going to call and don't, well the action said way more than the words. The action said we really aren't that important.
If that is the message you are trying to convey, fine, some drama queen will love you. Go find her. They are everywhere. I am writing this assuming you want a healthy stable relationship. A smart, emotionally balanced woman will not like a jerk, she will go with the nice guy providing he can stimulate her on an emotional level.
So how do you attract these smarter, balanced women? Do you have to play games? Well maybe not games, but being overly available and calling her 12 times a day and texting lame messages will begin to annoy her for sure. Please tell me you don't text her good morning beautiful, or sexy or something similar shortly after meeting her. Most of us roll our eyes at that because it happens all the time. You are not standing out. If you are going to send a text, by all means be creative and witty. Don't be like all the other guys.
Be a nice guy, but don't be one of the nice guys that finish last.
There are many creative ways to meet and attract women and still be a nice guy and not finish last. There is online dating, there is the cell phone which is a huge tool for you dating life. What you text and what you say when you use that phone can make or break an attraction. Learn to use these tools so that you will not be one of those nice guys that finish last.
Thursday, December 3, 2009
On Line Dating Profiles for Men
The profile, wow, 98% of them say about the same thing. You tell us all of your wonderful qualities. You are honest, caring, sincere, affectionate, respectful and know how to treat a lady. These qualities are grand, it beats dishonest, selfish, liar, cold hearted and disrespectful and will treat you like trash. Don't try to sell yourself, we are not shopping for a car.
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Then there is usually the line about not playing games. So many times you men think we are playing games when we are not. We are just following the natural role of being the selector. We know most of you don't want games and neither do we. Leave that information out.
When describing your ideal mate we don't need to see your long list. When you have all of these expectations, you are only hurting yourself. Setting high specific expectations may just scare off the perfect woman for you. You may prefer blondes and that fabulous brunette just got away. You may want a fitness buff but the lounging laid back woman may be everything else you ever wanted.
Scroll the profiles, most of them start out and continue with "I". The best profiles are written like you are just talking, put your personality in there with a few facts. Leave something for the imagination. We don't want to read a novel, and we don't want to read an advertisement either. Somewhere in the middle please. We know you are looking for a good woman, we already know a lot of things, so don't repeat them. Tell us something we don't know.
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One more thing about profiles. If you have had some bad experiences, don't let that show in your profile. We have all played the fool at some point in our lives. When you mention it or allude to it, we see you as bitter. We also assume you are not over the woman before us. Big turn off. We want to know you are ready to embrace us and if you have your hands full of the past, well you just won't be able.
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Then there is usually the line about not playing games. So many times you men think we are playing games when we are not. We are just following the natural role of being the selector. We know most of you don't want games and neither do we. Leave that information out.
When describing your ideal mate we don't need to see your long list. When you have all of these expectations, you are only hurting yourself. Setting high specific expectations may just scare off the perfect woman for you. You may prefer blondes and that fabulous brunette just got away. You may want a fitness buff but the lounging laid back woman may be everything else you ever wanted.
Scroll the profiles, most of them start out and continue with "I". The best profiles are written like you are just talking, put your personality in there with a few facts. Leave something for the imagination. We don't want to read a novel, and we don't want to read an advertisement either. Somewhere in the middle please. We know you are looking for a good woman, we already know a lot of things, so don't repeat them. Tell us something we don't know.
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One more thing about profiles. If you have had some bad experiences, don't let that show in your profile. We have all played the fool at some point in our lives. When you mention it or allude to it, we see you as bitter. We also assume you are not over the woman before us. Big turn off. We want to know you are ready to embrace us and if you have your hands full of the past, well you just won't be able.
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Thursday, November 19, 2009
Texting A Girl. Build the Attraction
So what are the best ways to text a girl? You want to get her interested and hopefully keep her interested. The best way to do this is through humor with a little suspense. Stay away from boring and the same old same old. Girls get the "good morning" text all the time. Nothing creative in that. You could have that stored and just pull it up and hit send. No effort there and we know it. Same thing with the beautiful, sexy and gorgeous names you use. Be different when texting girls, all guys send these.
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If you have to call her a name think of something cute and funny. I had a guy that always joked about how smart he was. Well he would call me grasshopper. You know, the one that learns from the teacher. Grasshopper made me smile way more than sexy or beautiful ever would. It showed me he was paying attention to the conversations we had. In texting a girl, be creative and use your sense of humor.
Don't over text girls either. It gets annoying especially when you are saying nothing really. Don't make dates over a text message or have any discussions. When you are texting to a girl mostly use this communication as a way to make her smile. It's like an anchor to her. Then every time she sees it's you texting she will associate that with a warm fuzzy feeling. The warm fuzzy feeling equals you in her mind. Keep the more serious things or talks to a phone call. When texting girls, keep it light and breezy.
Flirt, flirt, flirt when you are texting a girl. Banter and pick a bit. Be a bit elusive. Instead of saying you wish she was here, say I wish I was on your balcony drinking a beer. This will always make her think in her mind, what about me. The result you are going to get a response and she opens the door for more flirting. Flirting and texting girls goes hand in hand
Texting with a girl is great for you guys. We know you really don't like to talk on the phone and it also decreases your chances of rejection. When you are texting girls remember we are emotional creatures and not so visually stimulated like you are. We often hang on your words and you often make our day with a few well thought out sentences. Make us smile, keep the mushy stuff out and be a bit mysterious and elusive. When you think about what you are going to text a girl, always think fun.
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Women place a huge importance on phone calls and texting from men. You would not believe how we stress over this. It is a huge tool and if used properly can literally transform your dating life and relationships. You can build a huge attraction and keep it by learning how to use the phone to your advantage.
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If you have to call her a name think of something cute and funny. I had a guy that always joked about how smart he was. Well he would call me grasshopper. You know, the one that learns from the teacher. Grasshopper made me smile way more than sexy or beautiful ever would. It showed me he was paying attention to the conversations we had. In texting a girl, be creative and use your sense of humor.
Don't over text girls either. It gets annoying especially when you are saying nothing really. Don't make dates over a text message or have any discussions. When you are texting to a girl mostly use this communication as a way to make her smile. It's like an anchor to her. Then every time she sees it's you texting she will associate that with a warm fuzzy feeling. The warm fuzzy feeling equals you in her mind. Keep the more serious things or talks to a phone call. When texting girls, keep it light and breezy.
Flirt, flirt, flirt when you are texting a girl. Banter and pick a bit. Be a bit elusive. Instead of saying you wish she was here, say I wish I was on your balcony drinking a beer. This will always make her think in her mind, what about me. The result you are going to get a response and she opens the door for more flirting. Flirting and texting girls goes hand in hand
Texting with a girl is great for you guys. We know you really don't like to talk on the phone and it also decreases your chances of rejection. When you are texting girls remember we are emotional creatures and not so visually stimulated like you are. We often hang on your words and you often make our day with a few well thought out sentences. Make us smile, keep the mushy stuff out and be a bit mysterious and elusive. When you think about what you are going to text a girl, always think fun.
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Women place a huge importance on phone calls and texting from men. You would not believe how we stress over this. It is a huge tool and if used properly can literally transform your dating life and relationships. You can build a huge attraction and keep it by learning how to use the phone to your advantage.
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Sunday, November 15, 2009
Review on Blue Truth
Blue Truth is a spiritual guide to love and sex, life and death. There are so many books out there that tell you tactics and claim to teach you secrets about the opposite sex. They are written by supposed dating gurus and while can and do work, they do not get to the heart of the matter.
David Deida goes very deep into the dynamics of the femine and masculine roles. He shares thoughts and ideas and goes deep into the heart of a woman. He explains clearly what it takes for a woman to truly open to you in a powerful way.
His book is only for the serious. If it is countless women you desire this book is not for you. If it is true and deep love you are after, this book is a must read. It can literally transform your life.
Blue Truth
The Way of the Superior Man
David Deida goes very deep into the dynamics of the femine and masculine roles. He shares thoughts and ideas and goes deep into the heart of a woman. He explains clearly what it takes for a woman to truly open to you in a powerful way.
His book is only for the serious. If it is countless women you desire this book is not for you. If it is true and deep love you are after, this book is a must read. It can literally transform your life.
Blue Truth
The Way of the Superior Man
Friday, November 13, 2009
Writing Online Dating Emails
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So you are on an online dating site. You want to send that first email but what do you say? You would like as many replies as possible. So many times you get no response and it gets discouraging. Do you realize that so many men send the same old emails and we women just roll our eyes. There is the "hello sexy" the "hello beautiful" and so forth and so on. We really want to see something original.
Now we know that you are testing the waters to check our level of interest with these meaningless emails but really think about it. What do you have to loose, it's not like you have to see these women if they ignore you. Take a chance, write a few sentences. Pick up something in her profile and take a humerous side to it. The chances of you getting a reply are greater if we feel like you really payed attention.
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Talk just like you would in person having a conversation, no slang or text launguage like ttyl, u, r, you know the abbreviations you use when you text. Check your grammar and your spelling. Poor spelling and bad grammar are a huge turnoff. If you can't put a simple sentence together we are going to question your mind. First impressions are very important.
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So you are on an online dating site. You want to send that first email but what do you say? You would like as many replies as possible. So many times you get no response and it gets discouraging. Do you realize that so many men send the same old emails and we women just roll our eyes. There is the "hello sexy" the "hello beautiful" and so forth and so on. We really want to see something original.
Now we know that you are testing the waters to check our level of interest with these meaningless emails but really think about it. What do you have to loose, it's not like you have to see these women if they ignore you. Take a chance, write a few sentences. Pick up something in her profile and take a humerous side to it. The chances of you getting a reply are greater if we feel like you really payed attention.
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Talk just like you would in person having a conversation, no slang or text launguage like ttyl, u, r, you know the abbreviations you use when you text. Check your grammar and your spelling. Poor spelling and bad grammar are a huge turnoff. If you can't put a simple sentence together we are going to question your mind. First impressions are very important.
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Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Online Dating Advice for Men
Dating sites are becoming more and more popular. When you join an online dating site for men your chances for meeting more women increases dramatically. Its like shopping. You put in your criteria and ta da, pages of women to choose from appear. So why do you still get refected? What are you doing wrong? There is so much to consider. There is the profile, the pictures and those first emails. What can you do to stand out in the online dating world?
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The first impression is your picture. Make sure it is a close up and it is clear. If you choose to add other pictures to your profile, consider adding ones where you are actively doing what you enjoy. No pictures of pets, landscape scenes or other women, regardless of who they are. Women are turned off by pictures of you with other women. One of the best tips for internet dating for men is have a picture. A close up and one full body is prefered.
Then the important thing, your profile. It would not hurt to do a reverse search and view other profiles of men. By seeing profiles of other men you can get a good idea how to stand out above the others. 98% of male profiles start out with something like how honest, loving, sincere, hardworking and so on and so forth a man is. As opposed to what? Dishonest, hateful, deceitful and lazy? These qualities do not need to be pointed out. Your personality should shine in your online profile. She should be motivated by your words to learn more about you.
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That first email is crucial. I am a woman active on a dating site and I can't tell you how many times I roll my eyes. The majority of the men either send something lame like "Ya wanna chat", or "How are you", and I have even got just a lame "hi". This does nothing for me or any other woman for that matter. Then there are the men that enter our inboxes trying to sell themselves. Please spare us, we are not buying a car. We are looking for creative interesting men. Are you out there? A male online profile should pique our interest, not bore us to tears.
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The first impression is your picture. Make sure it is a close up and it is clear. If you choose to add other pictures to your profile, consider adding ones where you are actively doing what you enjoy. No pictures of pets, landscape scenes or other women, regardless of who they are. Women are turned off by pictures of you with other women. One of the best tips for internet dating for men is have a picture. A close up and one full body is prefered.
Then the important thing, your profile. It would not hurt to do a reverse search and view other profiles of men. By seeing profiles of other men you can get a good idea how to stand out above the others. 98% of male profiles start out with something like how honest, loving, sincere, hardworking and so on and so forth a man is. As opposed to what? Dishonest, hateful, deceitful and lazy? These qualities do not need to be pointed out. Your personality should shine in your online profile. She should be motivated by your words to learn more about you.
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That first email is crucial. I am a woman active on a dating site and I can't tell you how many times I roll my eyes. The majority of the men either send something lame like "Ya wanna chat", or "How are you", and I have even got just a lame "hi". This does nothing for me or any other woman for that matter. Then there are the men that enter our inboxes trying to sell themselves. Please spare us, we are not buying a car. We are looking for creative interesting men. Are you out there? A male online profile should pique our interest, not bore us to tears.
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Friday, October 30, 2009
Flirting like Crazy with Text Messages
Today text messaging seems to be a prime means of communication between the male and female species. Its easier to type a text message than pick up the phone and call. It can also be very effective because you have the time to think and plot what it is that you want to say or how to respond.
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Women are not stimulated like men. Men are visual creatures, women more emotional and the stimulation starts in a woman's mind. If you can stimulate her mind, you can get and keep her interest. Men don't respond to words, but women do. They read them, and store them and reflect upon them. The words you use can make a huge difference in how the women in your life see you.
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A lot of men make the mistake of using those friend type text messages, like good morning, how are you, what cha doing type thing. A girl opens her phone up to see that and goes, "Oh Boy, same old same old". You want to stand out above the others. You want to be funny, flirty and witty. Don't waste your texting making her your friend by being like all the others, stand out, be different.
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Women like men, like a challenge. You can chose your words well and pique her interest and get her dying to meet you and be with you. By being creative and using your imagination and a few guides, you can use text messaging to take your dating game or love interest to the next level. What have you got to lose, learn to flirt her up and down through text messages.
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I am a single woman active in the dating scene. I am finding that men spend a lot of time in my phone. Some are welcome there, but most end up deleted. I love a man that can send a great text message. It can be endearing, funny, and interesting. It sparks my interest and makes me want to see him when he sends those great flirts and leaves me with no choice to flirt back.
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Women are not stimulated like men. Men are visual creatures, women more emotional and the stimulation starts in a woman's mind. If you can stimulate her mind, you can get and keep her interest. Men don't respond to words, but women do. They read them, and store them and reflect upon them. The words you use can make a huge difference in how the women in your life see you.
Click Here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
A lot of men make the mistake of using those friend type text messages, like good morning, how are you, what cha doing type thing. A girl opens her phone up to see that and goes, "Oh Boy, same old same old". You want to stand out above the others. You want to be funny, flirty and witty. Don't waste your texting making her your friend by being like all the others, stand out, be different.
Click Here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Women like men, like a challenge. You can chose your words well and pique her interest and get her dying to meet you and be with you. By being creative and using your imagination and a few guides, you can use text messaging to take your dating game or love interest to the next level. What have you got to lose, learn to flirt her up and down through text messages.
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I am a single woman active in the dating scene. I am finding that men spend a lot of time in my phone. Some are welcome there, but most end up deleted. I love a man that can send a great text message. It can be endearing, funny, and interesting. It sparks my interest and makes me want to see him when he sends those great flirts and leaves me with no choice to flirt back.
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Thursday, October 8, 2009
She Wants to be Just Friends
Women are not stimulated like men. Men are visual creatures, women more emotional and the stimulation starts in a woman's mind. If you can stimulate her mind, you can get and keep her interest. Men don't respond to words, but women do. They read them, and store them and reflect upon them. The words you use can make a huge difference in how the women in your life see you. Take her out of the friend zone and more than just friends.
How many times have you heard the line, I just want to be your friend or I don't want to risk our friendship. It happens over and over to most guys. You are viewed as the nice guy and we all know the nice guy usually does not get the girl.
If you are trying to convince her how great you are and what a wonderful partner you are this will push her further away. You are not a used car salesman. If you thing buying her gifts and doing nice things will sway her, wrong again, she will just see you as needy and desperate.
The key is to change her view of you from that of Mr. Nice guy to Mr. Confident who will be just fine with or without her. Indifference can make her stop and think, hey maybe I am missing something here. So after you have been this great friend to her, your next step of action might be to take that friendship away, distance yourself. Women want what they can't have. How many times have you witnessed someone not wanting something until it was gone?
So stop being the nice guy and the friend. Treat her like you would any other person and show her it does not matter. Make her think with your actions, not with words trying to convince her how you are perfect for her and why she should be with you. If she just wants to be friends, change your behavior. Get out of the friend zone.
Are you going to just stand by while some other guy gets the girl. Are you going to be the guy who gets to stand back and watch as she dates other guys? Always the friend, never the boyfriend. Stop hearing the words "I just want to be friends".
How many times have you heard the line, I just want to be your friend or I don't want to risk our friendship. It happens over and over to most guys. You are viewed as the nice guy and we all know the nice guy usually does not get the girl.
If you are trying to convince her how great you are and what a wonderful partner you are this will push her further away. You are not a used car salesman. If you thing buying her gifts and doing nice things will sway her, wrong again, she will just see you as needy and desperate.
The key is to change her view of you from that of Mr. Nice guy to Mr. Confident who will be just fine with or without her. Indifference can make her stop and think, hey maybe I am missing something here. So after you have been this great friend to her, your next step of action might be to take that friendship away, distance yourself. Women want what they can't have. How many times have you witnessed someone not wanting something until it was gone?
So stop being the nice guy and the friend. Treat her like you would any other person and show her it does not matter. Make her think with your actions, not with words trying to convince her how you are perfect for her and why she should be with you. If she just wants to be friends, change your behavior. Get out of the friend zone.
Are you going to just stand by while some other guy gets the girl. Are you going to be the guy who gets to stand back and watch as she dates other guys? Always the friend, never the boyfriend. Stop hearing the words "I just want to be friends".
Secrets to Giving Your Woman Powerful Orgasms
Building up the Excitement
Talk soft and intimate love talk and foreplay to make her crazy with longing. Caress her all over gently and lovingly while you appreciate her. Some naughty talk may also accompany this. Be aware if she is enjoying it; if not then omit the naughty talk. Keep building up the excitement till her body wiggles and twists with desire. Prepare her for that mind blowing orgasm.
Know her body
This will come gradually. Be alert to detect which movement or touch excites her and makes her breathing irregular; be attentive to realize that she has moved your hand away from a spot or a particular position that she is uncomfortable with. Once you're aware of what excites or does not excite her, you will be able to give her intense orgasms. Pay attention to her body, her movement, her moaning and mostly her breathing.
Go real slow
Once she's ready do not rush into it. Just because she is wet does not mean she is ready for you to take the plunge. She will want to orgasm and orgasm a number of times and if you too wish your girl to have intense orgasms then do not penetrate even if you think she's ready. And when you do penetrate move slowly in and out and do not thrust heavily or fast initially. Tease her until she can't take it anymore and just explodes. Again, pay attention to her breathing, then you will know when to pick up the pace.
You'll feel really good when you have brought your woman to screaming pleasures. Be the lover she never forgets and longs for. Turn her into a wild woman in the bedroom by driving her crazy with pleasure.
Talk soft and intimate love talk and foreplay to make her crazy with longing. Caress her all over gently and lovingly while you appreciate her. Some naughty talk may also accompany this. Be aware if she is enjoying it; if not then omit the naughty talk. Keep building up the excitement till her body wiggles and twists with desire. Prepare her for that mind blowing orgasm.
Know her body
This will come gradually. Be alert to detect which movement or touch excites her and makes her breathing irregular; be attentive to realize that she has moved your hand away from a spot or a particular position that she is uncomfortable with. Once you're aware of what excites or does not excite her, you will be able to give her intense orgasms. Pay attention to her body, her movement, her moaning and mostly her breathing.
Go real slow
Once she's ready do not rush into it. Just because she is wet does not mean she is ready for you to take the plunge. She will want to orgasm and orgasm a number of times and if you too wish your girl to have intense orgasms then do not penetrate even if you think she's ready. And when you do penetrate move slowly in and out and do not thrust heavily or fast initially. Tease her until she can't take it anymore and just explodes. Again, pay attention to her breathing, then you will know when to pick up the pace.
You'll feel really good when you have brought your woman to screaming pleasures. Be the lover she never forgets and longs for. Turn her into a wild woman in the bedroom by driving her crazy with pleasure.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Approaching Women and Asking a Girl Out
Its a fact that there are a lot more single women out there than men. So whats the problem here? Why is it so many men don't know how to ask a girl out? Men get rejected often and this is what makes them stop trying. A lot of guys give out their phone number instead of getting hers. Do you do this and why? You do this because if she calls you then you don't risk the chance of rejection you may get if you call her and she blows you off. The truth of the matter is a lot of girls give out their numbers to be polite. No wonder guys are getting lazier when it comes to approaching women. Its really a simple concept when it comes to asking a girl out.
Lets say for every 100 women you meet 20 of them are actually:
Single
Emotionally Stable
Able to carry on an interesting conversation
Not stuck up
Not psycho
So those 80 rejected you and you get discouraged. It affects your attitude and then you are not on your game when you do come across the 20. The key is to not take the 80 personally. Its gets difficult because your mind frame starts to expect the women to be not single, not emotionally stable, not able to carry on a conversation, stuck up and psycho.
The secret here is to approach every woman that you meet with it in your mind that she is all of the above. But let's say that you were "playing it cool", not saying anything that might offend or appear "too forward", and generally treating her like she was probably married or had a boyfriend. You'd probably be trying to figure out if she was
single, not really paying attention to what you were saying, and you might finish up by saying, "So, can I take you out to dinner sometime?" And what is this hot, smart, desirable woman thinking while you're acting like a dork? Right...she's thinking that you're a dork. Duh.
The solution is to use a little technique called behaving as if she's single, available, and interesting. You must learn to overcome your initial self-doubt and your doubts about a woman, and behave as if every woman you start talking to is single and as if she's going to be the one most interesting woman ever. You must do the things that will attract that woman, and forget about the rest. You must learn to not take the things that happen in between meeting the wonderful ones personally.
You need to be humorous, creative and flirty. Don't ask a woman out to dinner or a movie, all guys do that.
Learn more about how to stand out and get those dates. Learn what works and how to attract a woman on a deeper level through your body language and attitude. Regardless of who you are, how you look, what you do for a living, you can learn how to get a woman to feel that attraction for you on a gut level and say yes when you ask her out. Learn what works and how to ask a girl out.
I am a single woman and know more single women than I do married or attached ones. They are all very available and want to date, but get discouraged because the men don't seem to get it. We want you to get it. We want a great guy. We want you to ask us out, but we don't want the same old thing. Would you like to go to dinner? Please...... We have all have met men that naturally know secret techniques and how to attract women and we are drawn to them like magnets. Do yourself a favor, take the time to learn these secrets. What do you have to lose, are you dating like crazy now? If you were you would not be reading this article. For more information on what women want please visit my site.
Lets say for every 100 women you meet 20 of them are actually:
Single
Emotionally Stable
Able to carry on an interesting conversation
Not stuck up
Not psycho
So those 80 rejected you and you get discouraged. It affects your attitude and then you are not on your game when you do come across the 20. The key is to not take the 80 personally. Its gets difficult because your mind frame starts to expect the women to be not single, not emotionally stable, not able to carry on a conversation, stuck up and psycho.
The secret here is to approach every woman that you meet with it in your mind that she is all of the above. But let's say that you were "playing it cool", not saying anything that might offend or appear "too forward", and generally treating her like she was probably married or had a boyfriend. You'd probably be trying to figure out if she was
single, not really paying attention to what you were saying, and you might finish up by saying, "So, can I take you out to dinner sometime?" And what is this hot, smart, desirable woman thinking while you're acting like a dork? Right...she's thinking that you're a dork. Duh.
The solution is to use a little technique called behaving as if she's single, available, and interesting. You must learn to overcome your initial self-doubt and your doubts about a woman, and behave as if every woman you start talking to is single and as if she's going to be the one most interesting woman ever. You must do the things that will attract that woman, and forget about the rest. You must learn to not take the things that happen in between meeting the wonderful ones personally.
You need to be humorous, creative and flirty. Don't ask a woman out to dinner or a movie, all guys do that.
Learn more about how to stand out and get those dates. Learn what works and how to attract a woman on a deeper level through your body language and attitude. Regardless of who you are, how you look, what you do for a living, you can learn how to get a woman to feel that attraction for you on a gut level and say yes when you ask her out. Learn what works and how to ask a girl out.
I am a single woman and know more single women than I do married or attached ones. They are all very available and want to date, but get discouraged because the men don't seem to get it. We want you to get it. We want a great guy. We want you to ask us out, but we don't want the same old thing. Would you like to go to dinner? Please...... We have all have met men that naturally know secret techniques and how to attract women and we are drawn to them like magnets. Do yourself a favor, take the time to learn these secrets. What do you have to lose, are you dating like crazy now? If you were you would not be reading this article. For more information on what women want please visit my site.
Build Intense Attraction with Text Messaging
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Text messaging is very powerful in building confidence and it realigns you with what exactly turns women on. This happens because when you send text messages you get time to stop and think about what you would have said. It's your opportunity to send the perfect flirty text message. If you do this right if she responds desirably (which she will) your confidence with build and you'll gain first hand, what to say to be successful with women on the phone and in the real world.
Texting roots to the source of power... WORDS. As they say in sales, "If you know the right words, you'll always make the sale."
You don't need to be witty, you don't need to dress a certain way (in fact you don't need to wear anything) and you don't have to deal with the competition in the room for that certain girl.
You're able to keep you on her mind all throughout the day, which is basically the definition of attraction... "A consistent thought about someone."
It gives you all the time you need to send the right flirty text messages so you can consistently get your desired response.
Effortlessly, you can build attraction, flirt and turn her on to where she is dying to meet up with you.
The key to building her interest and getting her attracted is in your presentation and what you say. How many of you men have sent "Good Morning Beautiful"? I bet a lot of you raised your hands. Do you have any idea how many times we have gotten that one? Be original and creative. If you want to say Good Morning, add some humor or find a way to bring up a funny memory.
My guy calls me Scarlett, as in O'Hara. Now what woman would not be flattered to be referred to as Scarlett or some other very intriguing woman. How about "Good Morning Scarlett". I would answer something and call him Rhett. This opens the door for more witty and cocky (women like cocky by the way) comments. There are tons of quotes from that movie alone to play upon. Frankly Scarlett, I don't give a damned that you are...say whatever, just be creative. That was just an example. Don't be mushy or serious. Mushy and serious will bore us to death. The object is to make us smile and laugh. Have you ever seen a woman somewhere reading a text message with that slight smile on her face and that mischievous look in her eyes while she is reading it. Bet she just got a text from her guy and I bet it was on the wicked side. Texting makes it so all you have to account for are words and timing. You text the right words at the right time and you can expect to triple or double your success in dating. I have seen it happen hundreds of times.
Flirting is the first step in building attraction. From a guy's rational perspective, it's unnecessary because she has already created attraction with her appearance. Men are visually stimulated its true. But it's crucial to a woman's attraction towards you because she is still waiting for a reason to want you. And a great way to do this is through sending flirty text messages.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
I am a single woman who has years of experience dating. I know what we like and women roll their eyes at some of these text messages we get and I don't mean that in a good way. With the right words, you can make our hearts skip a beat. Learn to do it right and we will be hanging on your words and the attraction will build. The result is women will not be able to resist you and will be dying to see you or meet you.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Text messaging is very powerful in building confidence and it realigns you with what exactly turns women on. This happens because when you send text messages you get time to stop and think about what you would have said. It's your opportunity to send the perfect flirty text message. If you do this right if she responds desirably (which she will) your confidence with build and you'll gain first hand, what to say to be successful with women on the phone and in the real world.
Texting roots to the source of power... WORDS. As they say in sales, "If you know the right words, you'll always make the sale."
You don't need to be witty, you don't need to dress a certain way (in fact you don't need to wear anything) and you don't have to deal with the competition in the room for that certain girl.
You're able to keep you on her mind all throughout the day, which is basically the definition of attraction... "A consistent thought about someone."
It gives you all the time you need to send the right flirty text messages so you can consistently get your desired response.
Effortlessly, you can build attraction, flirt and turn her on to where she is dying to meet up with you.
The key to building her interest and getting her attracted is in your presentation and what you say. How many of you men have sent "Good Morning Beautiful"? I bet a lot of you raised your hands. Do you have any idea how many times we have gotten that one? Be original and creative. If you want to say Good Morning, add some humor or find a way to bring up a funny memory.
My guy calls me Scarlett, as in O'Hara. Now what woman would not be flattered to be referred to as Scarlett or some other very intriguing woman. How about "Good Morning Scarlett". I would answer something and call him Rhett. This opens the door for more witty and cocky (women like cocky by the way) comments. There are tons of quotes from that movie alone to play upon. Frankly Scarlett, I don't give a damned that you are...say whatever, just be creative. That was just an example. Don't be mushy or serious. Mushy and serious will bore us to death. The object is to make us smile and laugh. Have you ever seen a woman somewhere reading a text message with that slight smile on her face and that mischievous look in her eyes while she is reading it. Bet she just got a text from her guy and I bet it was on the wicked side. Texting makes it so all you have to account for are words and timing. You text the right words at the right time and you can expect to triple or double your success in dating. I have seen it happen hundreds of times.
Flirting is the first step in building attraction. From a guy's rational perspective, it's unnecessary because she has already created attraction with her appearance. Men are visually stimulated its true. But it's crucial to a woman's attraction towards you because she is still waiting for a reason to want you. And a great way to do this is through sending flirty text messages.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
I am a single woman who has years of experience dating. I know what we like and women roll their eyes at some of these text messages we get and I don't mean that in a good way. With the right words, you can make our hearts skip a beat. Learn to do it right and we will be hanging on your words and the attraction will build. The result is women will not be able to resist you and will be dying to see you or meet you.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Do Women Fake Orgasms
A lot of women won't tell you what they really want in bed. They are emotional creatures and love the foreplay and the cuddle time. The truth is they long for a man that can rock their world and make them surrender and scream in pleasure. They fake it because they don't want to hurt your feelings.
75% of women admit to faking. Women know that a man puts a lot of stock into his sexual performance and so they fake it to stroke your ego. Admit it, when you think you have made her weak in the knees, you feel great! You feel like Don Juan.
Its also a fact that most women take longer to reach orgasm than men. If a man knows what do do, and how to do it, it will not take a woman so long to peak to sexual pleasure. She is capable of having many orgasms if you are able to give them to her. Women are not limited to the number of orgasms she can achieve. How would you like to be told, please please stop, I can't take anymore. You can make a woman scream in bed if you know what works.
When a woman loses control, her skin gets hot, and red, she has contractions, her breathing is out of control and her body writhes. She stumbles when she gets out of bed because she is weak in the knees and disoriented. If your woman is not doing this, chances are, she is faking it. Are you this kind of lover to her? Do you make her scream with ecstasy between the sheets?
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75% of women admit to faking. Women know that a man puts a lot of stock into his sexual performance and so they fake it to stroke your ego. Admit it, when you think you have made her weak in the knees, you feel great! You feel like Don Juan.
Its also a fact that most women take longer to reach orgasm than men. If a man knows what do do, and how to do it, it will not take a woman so long to peak to sexual pleasure. She is capable of having many orgasms if you are able to give them to her. Women are not limited to the number of orgasms she can achieve. How would you like to be told, please please stop, I can't take anymore. You can make a woman scream in bed if you know what works.
When a woman loses control, her skin gets hot, and red, she has contractions, her breathing is out of control and her body writhes. She stumbles when she gets out of bed because she is weak in the knees and disoriented. If your woman is not doing this, chances are, she is faking it. Are you this kind of lover to her? Do you make her scream with ecstasy between the sheets?
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Get Out of the Friend Zone
Women are not stimulated like men. Men are visual creatures, women more emotional and the stimulation starts in a woman's mind. If you can stimulate her mind, you can get and keep her interest. Men don't respond to words, but women do. They read them, and store them and reflect upon them. The words you use can make a huge difference in how the women in your life see you. Take her out of the friend zone and more than just friends.
How many times have you heard the line, I just want to be your friend or I don't want to risk our friendship. It happens over and over to most guys. You are viewed as the nice guy and we all know the nice guy usually does not get the girl.
If you are trying to convince her how great you are and what a wonderful partner you are this will push her further away. You are not a used car salesman. If you thing buying her gifts and doing nice things will sway her, wrong again, she will just see you as needy and desperate.
The key is to change her view of you from that of Mr. Nice guy to Mr. Confident who will be just fine with or without her. Indifference can make her stop and think, hey maybe I am missing something here. So after you have been this great friend to her, your next step of action might be to take that friendship away, distance yourself. Women want what they can't have. How many times have you witnessed someone not wanting something until it was gone?
So stop being the nice guy and the friend. Treat her like you would any other person and show her it does not matter. Make her think with your actions, not with words trying to convince her how you are perfect for her and why she should be with you. If she just wants to be friends, change your behavior. Get out of the friend zone.
Chances are that if you are her friend you will have the pleasure of meeting all of her new boyfriends. Is this what you want to do, or do you want to be the boyfriend? Be the guy that gets the girl, don't sit back while someone else comes along and gets what you want.
How many times have you heard the line, I just want to be your friend or I don't want to risk our friendship. It happens over and over to most guys. You are viewed as the nice guy and we all know the nice guy usually does not get the girl.
If you are trying to convince her how great you are and what a wonderful partner you are this will push her further away. You are not a used car salesman. If you thing buying her gifts and doing nice things will sway her, wrong again, she will just see you as needy and desperate.
The key is to change her view of you from that of Mr. Nice guy to Mr. Confident who will be just fine with or without her. Indifference can make her stop and think, hey maybe I am missing something here. So after you have been this great friend to her, your next step of action might be to take that friendship away, distance yourself. Women want what they can't have. How many times have you witnessed someone not wanting something until it was gone?
So stop being the nice guy and the friend. Treat her like you would any other person and show her it does not matter. Make her think with your actions, not with words trying to convince her how you are perfect for her and why she should be with you. If she just wants to be friends, change your behavior. Get out of the friend zone.
Chances are that if you are her friend you will have the pleasure of meeting all of her new boyfriends. Is this what you want to do, or do you want to be the boyfriend? Be the guy that gets the girl, don't sit back while someone else comes along and gets what you want.
Texting Tips for Guys
So many men make so many mistakes in the beginning of the game. They try to be nice and interesting, but somehow it just backfires. After a few calls and texts, the girl decides she just wants to be Friends. What are you doing wrong, you are a nice guy right? Why is it some guys even though they are not all that hot have the women all over them. What do they do that you don't? Discover how to double your dating and the secrets to text messaging women.
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First thing when you are texting or calling a woman, you have to be upbeat, humerus and play on her emotional side. Women are bored by serious talk. If you start out talking about what you want in a relationship, the qualities that you expect, blah blah blah, you will bore her to death. Its the guy who makes the girl laugh that gets her attention. This is the one that will have her picking up the phone and sharing the texts or conversations with her girlfriends.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Be flirty. Be a bit of a bad boy, but with respect. A playful nickname is always endearing to a woman. The "hi beautiful" is used by every guy. Stay away from that one. Be creative, be different. My guy calls me Scarlett, you know as in O'Hara. So when I get a text that says "Good Night Scarlett" it still makes me smile and gives me the opportunity to play back by saying something like "Talk to you soon Rhett".
It makes it fun.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Push her buttons. Once you know her buttons, push them to get a reaction. Do this until you sense her getting frustrated. If you want to meet her that night, don't just ask, push the buttons, build her up, make her think you aren't going to ask and then wham, hit her with it. This was done to me last week and let me tell you, my guy had me going for about an hour and when he finally sent the text that made me jump for joy, it read something like this. You, me, drinks 5:00 o'clock. Now that's a man that knows how to build attraction. Use texing to your advantage
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Stop waiting and start acting. Don't loose these great women to men who already have the secrets. You can start having dating success today and learn how to get this women addicted to you and dying to go out with you. If you would like to learn more about building attraction through texting and phone calls and how to double your dating success, please visit this site.
Learn how women think and how to build and attraction and become irresistible to women. Have them hanging on your every word and dying to see you again and again. Don't wait, start turning your dating life around and learn how to be a ladies man and have all the success with women you have dreamed of. Text Messaging tips and Double your dating are both guaranteed programs to help you accomplish this and so much more. Don't let another woman get away because you are unsure what to do. Learn how to flirt via text messages.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
First thing when you are texting or calling a woman, you have to be upbeat, humerus and play on her emotional side. Women are bored by serious talk. If you start out talking about what you want in a relationship, the qualities that you expect, blah blah blah, you will bore her to death. Its the guy who makes the girl laugh that gets her attention. This is the one that will have her picking up the phone and sharing the texts or conversations with her girlfriends.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Be flirty. Be a bit of a bad boy, but with respect. A playful nickname is always endearing to a woman. The "hi beautiful" is used by every guy. Stay away from that one. Be creative, be different. My guy calls me Scarlett, you know as in O'Hara. So when I get a text that says "Good Night Scarlett" it still makes me smile and gives me the opportunity to play back by saying something like "Talk to you soon Rhett".
It makes it fun.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Push her buttons. Once you know her buttons, push them to get a reaction. Do this until you sense her getting frustrated. If you want to meet her that night, don't just ask, push the buttons, build her up, make her think you aren't going to ask and then wham, hit her with it. This was done to me last week and let me tell you, my guy had me going for about an hour and when he finally sent the text that made me jump for joy, it read something like this. You, me, drinks 5:00 o'clock. Now that's a man that knows how to build attraction. Use texing to your advantage
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
Stop waiting and start acting. Don't loose these great women to men who already have the secrets. You can start having dating success today and learn how to get this women addicted to you and dying to go out with you. If you would like to learn more about building attraction through texting and phone calls and how to double your dating success, please visit this site.
Learn how women think and how to build and attraction and become irresistible to women. Have them hanging on your every word and dying to see you again and again. Don't wait, start turning your dating life around and learn how to be a ladies man and have all the success with women you have dreamed of. Text Messaging tips and Double your dating are both guaranteed programs to help you accomplish this and so much more. Don't let another woman get away because you are unsure what to do. Learn how to flirt via text messages.
click here to get over 101 proven flirty text messages
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