Showing posts with label i am in love with my best girl friend. Show all posts
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Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Get Out of the Friend Zone

Women are not stimulated like men. Men are visual creatures, women more emotional and the stimulation starts in a woman's mind. If you can stimulate her mind, you can get and keep her interest. Men don't respond to words, but women do. They read them, and store them and reflect upon them. The words you use can make a huge difference in how the women in your life see you. Take her out of the friend zone and more than just friends.

How many times have you heard the line, I just want to be your friend or I don't want to risk our friendship. It happens over and over to most guys. You are viewed as the nice guy and we all know the nice guy usually does not get the girl.

If you are trying to convince her how great you are and what a wonderful partner you are this will push her further away. You are not a used car salesman. If you thing buying her gifts and doing nice things will sway her, wrong again, she will just see you as needy and desperate.

The key is to change her view of you from that of Mr. Nice guy to Mr. Confident who will be just fine with or without her. Indifference can make her stop and think, hey maybe I am missing something here. So after you have been this great friend to her, your next step of action might be to take that friendship away, distance yourself. Women want what they can't have. How many times have you witnessed someone not wanting something until it was gone?

So stop being the nice guy and the friend. Treat her like you would any other person and show her it does not matter. Make her think with your actions, not with words trying to convince her how you are perfect for her and why she should be with you. If she just wants to be friends, change your behavior. Get out of the friend zone.
Chances are that if you are her friend you will have the pleasure of meeting all of her new boyfriends. Is this what you want to do, or do you want to be the boyfriend? Be the guy that gets the girl, don't sit back while someone else comes along and gets what you want.