Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Asking a Girl Out

This topic was recently addressed in a group on facebook. It consisted of women advising men on how to ask a girl out and what does and does not impress here. The posts are as follows.

Natasha: Girls, I am starting to write manual for boys for how to get a date with a real girl. I posted on my personal page and got gret advice, so I thought I could post here to get more input.

In fact, I think we should all write it together and post it here and on Robin's group "What the hell women want"

Few simple rules to start with:
1. If you want to get her phone number, ask for it. Be brave and say the words: " May I ( Can I) have your phone number please?" Be sincere and only ask if you intend on calling. Don't wait for her to offer her number and if she doesn't, feel rejected. Remember, you haven't asked.

Caroline: When you get her number call her, don't wait days and weeks. If she gave it to you, she is interested, nothing ventured nothing gained.

Natasha: Yes, the key is act like a man, not project your insecurities to her.
Ask for the number like you mean it and mean it. Call without waiting and be open and playful. Keep it light and don't jump into sexual innuendos the first time you are talking to a girl, unless she is paid to do that.

Caroline: There are 900 numbers for that, and websites.

Next just ask her out, just do it. A real date, not ya wanna come over and hang out. That is if you want a real girl. A quality girl and we are assuming that you do know the difference

Natasha: Make sure you are giving her few days advance and choice of time and place. Don't just say you will take her anywhere she wants. Have a plan A and B and tell her what you have in mind. Try to find out while talking, what her preferences are, but if you don't know, just be neutral. Don't offer to take her to places where you hang out with your guys. You want this time to be just for the two of you.

Caroline: We hate the what do you want to do, I dunno, what do you want to do. Just do it. One of the best dates I had in a while we went to the state fair, it was a blast. Something that requires interaction, it helps build attraction, NO MOVIES PLEASE!

Natasha: Mind your manners. You don't have to be stiff, but be respectful. Don't try to fill her out, squeeze a kiss and look in her blouse. Light touching is OK. Think how you would want a guy to act if he was on a date with your sister.

Caroline: Look in her eyes not at her breasts, please. Touch her hair once, lightly is ok.

Natasha: About 90 % of the girls are NOT interested in your truck, bike, boat.
Instead, wear nice shoes and socks. That impresses girls more on a first date.

Susie: "Yes" re the shoes... very important!

Caroline: I could care less what he drives, the fact that he will come to my door and actually pick me up, open the door for me is far more important.

Natasha: If you are picking her up (some girls will not be comfortable on a first date to show you where they live), make sure your car is not full of junk on the front seat. It maybe a good idea to clear the front seat just in case you end up driving together somewhere after you meet.

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This discussion is still going and will be updated at a later date.

There is a group just started on facebook called "What the hell do women want" Feel free to check it out and join.

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