In my experience with online dating, that first email is your opportunity for a first impression. The subject line of an online dating email is her next impression after your profile, which is also critical. Don't underestimate the power this simple thing holds as to weather she will consider you as a candidate or not.
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I am an advocate of online dating. I have done it and met some really great guys, even had a couple of long term relationships, not to mention the friendships I have had too. Don't get me wrong, I have met some crazy guys, just like I am sure you have met some crazy women. It's a numbers game, but if you are dating online, you increase your chances of finding a companion by leaps and bounds.
I have seen many things in a subject line of an online dating email. First there is the "no subject". This does nothing to spark interest. You need an interesting subject line, one that stands out in her inbox. Quality women get a lot of emails. If they open up their mail and see "No subject", they think you didn't put forth too much effort.
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Then there is the ridiculous subject line that almost all the guys use. It's something like "Hey Sexy", "Nice pic", "Hi beautiful", etc... You get the drift right? When we open our mail, we often have many of these that are so alike it's just down right discouraging. We roll our eyes and say, "Oh Boy, here we go again".
So what do you put in the subject line of an online dating email then? Find something in her profile and use that to come up with a subject line. Be witty and humorous. Let her know you actually read her profile. Stay away from anything sexual and don't comment on her appearance of good looks. Attraction for a woman starts in her mind. Stimulate her mind.
Another good trick is if you exchange several emails which if she is a quality woman she may want to do, change the subject line with every few emails. This piques her interest. If she opens up her mail and finds a different subject line every time, you start to stand out from the rest. You are more interesting and creative than the others.
The subject line of an online dating email is just one of the many important things to consider. There is the profile, email content, profile picture and the list goes on and on. To triple your chances of getting dates online, invest in learning what works and what doesn't, I think you would be surprised. Knowledge is power.
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Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Text Messaging to Make Her Fall in Love
Can you make a girl fall in love with text messaging? Sounds crazy doesn't it? Well not really. Girls respond to words if used in the right way.
Do you have any clue how many women fall in love online without ever meeting the guy? They form this amazing attachment to a stranger and are convinced they are in love. How do I know this? For starters, I have about 15 of them living in my inbox seeking advice, plus it has happened to me.
Think about it, texting a girl is very similar to emailing back and forth. If a guy can hook a girl through email, surely he can hook her with texting also. It's all about building mystery, attraction and sexual tension. It's not always about what you say, but also about what you don't say. To make a girl fall in love with text messages, you have to be clever.
There are techniques you can use in communicating in the virtual world that keep her hanging and wanting more. I have been on the receiving end of this communication and let me tell you, by the time I met the guy, I was sure it was love. Sounds crazy I know, but he knew how to push my buttons. I wanted to know more about him because he knew how to use the words to let my imagination go into overtime. I spent an entire day texting this guy and at the end of the day, I realized I really knew little about him and he knew a lot about me. How on earth did he do that?
Texting with your girl can enhance your relationship if you know the right techniques and what to say and what not to say. Texting girls is the number one tool in dating now. Some guys are naturals, some are learned. Which one are you?
Do you have any clue how many women fall in love online without ever meeting the guy? They form this amazing attachment to a stranger and are convinced they are in love. How do I know this? For starters, I have about 15 of them living in my inbox seeking advice, plus it has happened to me.
Think about it, texting a girl is very similar to emailing back and forth. If a guy can hook a girl through email, surely he can hook her with texting also. It's all about building mystery, attraction and sexual tension. It's not always about what you say, but also about what you don't say. To make a girl fall in love with text messages, you have to be clever.
There are techniques you can use in communicating in the virtual world that keep her hanging and wanting more. I have been on the receiving end of this communication and let me tell you, by the time I met the guy, I was sure it was love. Sounds crazy I know, but he knew how to push my buttons. I wanted to know more about him because he knew how to use the words to let my imagination go into overtime. I spent an entire day texting this guy and at the end of the day, I realized I really knew little about him and he knew a lot about me. How on earth did he do that?
Texting with your girl can enhance your relationship if you know the right techniques and what to say and what not to say. Texting girls is the number one tool in dating now. Some guys are naturals, some are learned. Which one are you?
Friday, October 22, 2010
Conveying Mystery With Text Messages to Women
It really is what you don't say that packs the punch. Let's say she just texted you "What ya doing?". You can answer her and tell her of course. " I just had lunch, now I am going to walk the dog." How boring is that? No mystery there is it. When texting a woman, be fun, not dull.
Let her imagination do your work for you. Don't actually answer her question. Dance around it. Change the subject. This would be even more effective if she asked something like "What are you up to tonight?". It leaves her wanting more information, a sure way to build mystery when texting a woman.
Another way to avoid the questions is to answer something just crazy or off the wall. Something like "Signing autographs, whatever, you get the point. It starts an entirely new conversation
yet she still doesn't have the answer to her question. Again she wants more information.
When texting a woman, less is more. Another way to be mysterious is to not reply right away. Wait a while. Let her wonder what you are doing that has you so busy you can't answer. Now chances are good that if you don't answer right away she will text again. If she does, use this opportunity to pick at her for her impatience and how she must really want you to keep texting.
When texting girls so many guys are so boring. They are predictable. Boring and predictable do not build attraction when it comes to texting women. Mystery and illusive build attraction. Be evasive. This makes her want to see you. It's a challenge and all people, male and female, love a challenge. It's a fact.
Let her imagination do your work for you. Don't actually answer her question. Dance around it. Change the subject. This would be even more effective if she asked something like "What are you up to tonight?". It leaves her wanting more information, a sure way to build mystery when texting a woman.
Another way to avoid the questions is to answer something just crazy or off the wall. Something like "Signing autographs, whatever, you get the point. It starts an entirely new conversation
yet she still doesn't have the answer to her question. Again she wants more information.
When texting a woman, less is more. Another way to be mysterious is to not reply right away. Wait a while. Let her wonder what you are doing that has you so busy you can't answer. Now chances are good that if you don't answer right away she will text again. If she does, use this opportunity to pick at her for her impatience and how she must really want you to keep texting.
When texting girls so many guys are so boring. They are predictable. Boring and predictable do not build attraction when it comes to texting women. Mystery and illusive build attraction. Be evasive. This makes her want to see you. It's a challenge and all people, male and female, love a challenge. It's a fact.
Monday, October 18, 2010
"The Psychology Behind Portraying Mystery... Think of Movie Previews..."
By Derek Lamont
Online Pickup Artist Expert & Author
www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com
We all know that MYSTERY is an integral part in attracting sexy women. But many men have absolutely no idea what REAL mystery is or how to portray it PROPERLY... especially in their online dating profiles.
Portray mystery correctly, and you’ll have all the attraction you need to escalate your interactions to the next level. To be honest, in all my experience seducing women, portraying that element of mystery is one of the most sure-fire ways to build up a physical relationship...
So how can this be done?
First, mystery simply cannot be conveyed unless you have conveyed high value. Think about it from a girl’s perspective if you can... are you going to want to find out more about something if you know that there’s going to be NO value in the end?
Of course not!
The analogy that I like to use is the “Movie Preview” one... think of how mystery is portrayed in one of those movie trailers. They show some of the BEST parts of the movie but then... WAIT... it stops! They cut it off when the seemingly BEST part is about to come.
That’s exactly what you need to do in your real life interactions and your online dating profiles! Let me give you an example...
Say you’re filling out your “interests box” and you want to spice it up a bit... you can say like...
“And my greatest and most passionate hobby involves mixing fancy SPORTS CARS and... something else. ;) I’m not telling at this point!.”
See what I mean?
You convey value at first by saying that you’re into FANCY sports cars. This, in turn, conveys that you have a passion in something very exotic. This is VERY appealing. Then, of course, you finish it off by saying that you aren’t telling.
I mean, there are tons of other examples... but you get the gist. Every good profile will have at least ONE of these.
Compel women to message you!
If you want to find out the full story on how YOU can get 4-5 messages a DAY from beautiful women online, visit my website.
Check it out?
What are you waiting for?
By Derek Lamont
Online Pickup Artist Expert & Author
www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com
We all know that MYSTERY is an integral part in attracting sexy women. But many men have absolutely no idea what REAL mystery is or how to portray it PROPERLY... especially in their online dating profiles.
Portray mystery correctly, and you’ll have all the attraction you need to escalate your interactions to the next level. To be honest, in all my experience seducing women, portraying that element of mystery is one of the most sure-fire ways to build up a physical relationship...
So how can this be done?
First, mystery simply cannot be conveyed unless you have conveyed high value. Think about it from a girl’s perspective if you can... are you going to want to find out more about something if you know that there’s going to be NO value in the end?
Of course not!
The analogy that I like to use is the “Movie Preview” one... think of how mystery is portrayed in one of those movie trailers. They show some of the BEST parts of the movie but then... WAIT... it stops! They cut it off when the seemingly BEST part is about to come.
That’s exactly what you need to do in your real life interactions and your online dating profiles! Let me give you an example...
Say you’re filling out your “interests box” and you want to spice it up a bit... you can say like...
“And my greatest and most passionate hobby involves mixing fancy SPORTS CARS and... something else. ;) I’m not telling at this point!.”
See what I mean?
You convey value at first by saying that you’re into FANCY sports cars. This, in turn, conveys that you have a passion in something very exotic. This is VERY appealing. Then, of course, you finish it off by saying that you aren’t telling.
I mean, there are tons of other examples... but you get the gist. Every good profile will have at least ONE of these.
Compel women to message you!
If you want to find out the full story on how YOU can get 4-5 messages a DAY from beautiful women online, visit my website.
Check it out?
What are you waiting for?
By Derek Lamont
Friday, October 15, 2010
Dating Again Without Getting Attached
Maybe you are coming out of a divorce or maybe you just broke up with a woman. You want to get back into the dating world but the last thing you want is to get exclusive with a woman to quickly.
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Meeting them and going on dates is not the problem, but once you hop in the sack, she starts acting like a girlfriend, wearing that girlfriend crown around, all proud and crap. She calls you if you don't call her, she wants to do your laundry and make you life easy. This really is sweet of her, but it also means now you feel responsible for her and you have the power to hurt her. Not a good feeling is it?
Ask yourself this though, were you sort of acting like the boyfriend? Were you calling her often, spending more time with her? Did you do like most men and go into that infatuation fog? You really weren't thinking of the future, you were lost in the moment and wanted to have sex.
Understand that women are naturally wired to bond and nurture, especially after sex. They start seeing that picket fence, strollers and babies often right from the very beginning.
If you really don't want to get involved so quickly, there are a few things you can do to keep her at a distance. Don't call her every day. Don't spend all of your free time with her. Call once, maybe twice a week. A text every now and then and take her out only once a week. Don't start sharing your day to day life with her. When you do all these things, she is going to think you want to be her boyfriend and trust me, she will start acting like your girlfriend.
Free Dating Tips For Men
Then you try to tell her you aren't ready for a relationship and she freaks. What??? But you called all the time, you spent time with her, and you slept with her. How could you?
Dating really doesn't have to be so complicated. You can date more than one woman and have a good time. You don't have to commit to one until you find the right one.
Free Dating Tips For Men
Free Dating Tips For Men
Meeting them and going on dates is not the problem, but once you hop in the sack, she starts acting like a girlfriend, wearing that girlfriend crown around, all proud and crap. She calls you if you don't call her, she wants to do your laundry and make you life easy. This really is sweet of her, but it also means now you feel responsible for her and you have the power to hurt her. Not a good feeling is it?
Ask yourself this though, were you sort of acting like the boyfriend? Were you calling her often, spending more time with her? Did you do like most men and go into that infatuation fog? You really weren't thinking of the future, you were lost in the moment and wanted to have sex.
Understand that women are naturally wired to bond and nurture, especially after sex. They start seeing that picket fence, strollers and babies often right from the very beginning.
If you really don't want to get involved so quickly, there are a few things you can do to keep her at a distance. Don't call her every day. Don't spend all of your free time with her. Call once, maybe twice a week. A text every now and then and take her out only once a week. Don't start sharing your day to day life with her. When you do all these things, she is going to think you want to be her boyfriend and trust me, she will start acting like your girlfriend.
Free Dating Tips For Men
Then you try to tell her you aren't ready for a relationship and she freaks. What??? But you called all the time, you spent time with her, and you slept with her. How could you?
Dating really doesn't have to be so complicated. You can date more than one woman and have a good time. You don't have to commit to one until you find the right one.
Free Dating Tips For Men
Thursday, October 14, 2010
The Last Thing a Girl Wants to Hear About
By Derek Lamont
Online Pickup Artist Expert & Author
www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com
Alright. I have to get this off my chest before I go INSANE...
So many guys that pickup girls online make this mistake. I mean, it seems like it would work, but it really... REALLY doesn’t.
This error that I’m referring... BRINGING UP SEX TOO EARLY!
Every guys seems to want to bring up the topic of sex way too early. DON’T. For many HIGH QUALITY women, it’s a sure sign that you’re just a horny punk with no respect.
That doesn’t mean that you can’t bring up sex... but that’s further down the road when you’ve built up enough TRUST and COMFORT... and often, I wouldn’t bring up sex until you actually MEET the girl in real life first!
Women have this negative image of how men are online... they think there are a ton of creepy guys that DON’T know how to REALLY please a woman... and by bringing up sex way too early, you are falling right into this “creepy category”...!
However, that doesn’t mean you can’t FLIRT online. You just need to know HOW to do it properly and make sure you don’t come off the wrong way.
You can convey what I call “Online IOI’s” or “Online Indicators of Interest.” An Online IOI can mean “lol’ing” at their jokes, increasing the amount of what you write, decreasing the duration of intervals between of messages, etc.
Mix these in with some “Online IOD’s” and now you have a recipe for creating a tremendous amount of attraction through your instant messages or e-mails...
Want to know the COMPLETE formula for getting those beautiful women you seen on Facebook/MySpace or online dating websites in your bed? Then check out my this website where I’ll tell you... for FREE!
Online Pickup Artist Expert & Author
www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com
Alright. I have to get this off my chest before I go INSANE...
So many guys that pickup girls online make this mistake. I mean, it seems like it would work, but it really... REALLY doesn’t.
This error that I’m referring... BRINGING UP SEX TOO EARLY!
Every guys seems to want to bring up the topic of sex way too early. DON’T. For many HIGH QUALITY women, it’s a sure sign that you’re just a horny punk with no respect.
That doesn’t mean that you can’t bring up sex... but that’s further down the road when you’ve built up enough TRUST and COMFORT... and often, I wouldn’t bring up sex until you actually MEET the girl in real life first!
Women have this negative image of how men are online... they think there are a ton of creepy guys that DON’T know how to REALLY please a woman... and by bringing up sex way too early, you are falling right into this “creepy category”...!
However, that doesn’t mean you can’t FLIRT online. You just need to know HOW to do it properly and make sure you don’t come off the wrong way.
You can convey what I call “Online IOI’s” or “Online Indicators of Interest.” An Online IOI can mean “lol’ing” at their jokes, increasing the amount of what you write, decreasing the duration of intervals between of messages, etc.
Mix these in with some “Online IOD’s” and now you have a recipe for creating a tremendous amount of attraction through your instant messages or e-mails...
Want to know the COMPLETE formula for getting those beautiful women you seen on Facebook/MySpace or online dating websites in your bed? Then check out my this website where I’ll tell you... for FREE!
Thursday, October 7, 2010
3 Critical Mistakes When Talking to Women Online
By Derek Lamont
Online Pickup Artist Expert & Author
www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com
So… you’re on your favorite dating site… or maybe you’re on Facebook…
And there she is.
The girl that catches your attention. But what do you do? Let me tell you what 99% of guys do… they’ll message them and say something really generic like…
“Hey! How’s it going! You look really interesting and I was wondering if you would like to chat sometime! Hit me back!”
Or…
“Wow, you’re gorgeous. I bet you have all the guys out there hitting on you… but hopefully this message will get through to you because I would really like to treat you out sometime!”
Or…
“I’m the nicest guy ever if you give me the chance! You should hit me back!”
I don’t care if you believe me – but it’s true. I guarantee you the success rate of some of these generic messages are about near 1% if you’re lucky. And that’s if you have a really nice profile…
So what’s the magic formula?
Well for starters…I did mention this before… you need for PERFECT YOUR PROFILE before you get started.
Don’t message ANYONE until your online dating profile is perfect!
What do I mean by this? You need to get the right pictures and right content in your profile. An attractive girl will not message you back if you have NO picture and just the most generic responses in your profile content.
Picture yourself from a girl’s perspective… you see some guy message you on some dating website and he has NO pictures… can you say creep?
What kind of pictures do you need to include? Typically speaking, you need to include pictures that convey value – but not in the way you’re thinking of… I’ll get to that a bit later.
The second thing you need to do is READ HER PROFILE. Too many guys fail to personalize the first message, which is critical. There are too many cut and paste messages out there.
An attractive girl gets as many as fifty messages a day! Do you think she’s going to have time to read all of them? Absolutely not.
You need something that catches their attention…the easiest way to do this is to personalize your message! More on this later…
Finally, the third thing most guys do is… write way too damn much!
Keep the message SHORT! Again, you need to appear like a non-creepy and non-needy guy. Again, imagine being an attractive girl… and you literally receive a full-fledged NOVEL! How weird is that to her? You barely know her and already you’re willing to invest a massive amount of time for her?
She doesn’t deserve that yet.
I give you all the tips you need on my website! So you’re in luck.
For the ultimate online Pickup tips click here.
Online Pickup Artist Expert & Author
www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com
So… you’re on your favorite dating site… or maybe you’re on Facebook…
And there she is.
The girl that catches your attention. But what do you do? Let me tell you what 99% of guys do… they’ll message them and say something really generic like…
“Hey! How’s it going! You look really interesting and I was wondering if you would like to chat sometime! Hit me back!”
Or…
“Wow, you’re gorgeous. I bet you have all the guys out there hitting on you… but hopefully this message will get through to you because I would really like to treat you out sometime!”
Or…
“I’m the nicest guy ever if you give me the chance! You should hit me back!”
I don’t care if you believe me – but it’s true. I guarantee you the success rate of some of these generic messages are about near 1% if you’re lucky. And that’s if you have a really nice profile…
So what’s the magic formula?
Well for starters…I did mention this before… you need for PERFECT YOUR PROFILE before you get started.
Don’t message ANYONE until your online dating profile is perfect!
What do I mean by this? You need to get the right pictures and right content in your profile. An attractive girl will not message you back if you have NO picture and just the most generic responses in your profile content.
Picture yourself from a girl’s perspective… you see some guy message you on some dating website and he has NO pictures… can you say creep?
What kind of pictures do you need to include? Typically speaking, you need to include pictures that convey value – but not in the way you’re thinking of… I’ll get to that a bit later.
The second thing you need to do is READ HER PROFILE. Too many guys fail to personalize the first message, which is critical. There are too many cut and paste messages out there.
An attractive girl gets as many as fifty messages a day! Do you think she’s going to have time to read all of them? Absolutely not.
You need something that catches their attention…the easiest way to do this is to personalize your message! More on this later…
Finally, the third thing most guys do is… write way too damn much!
Keep the message SHORT! Again, you need to appear like a non-creepy and non-needy guy. Again, imagine being an attractive girl… and you literally receive a full-fledged NOVEL! How weird is that to her? You barely know her and already you’re willing to invest a massive amount of time for her?
She doesn’t deserve that yet.
I give you all the tips you need on my website! So you’re in luck.
For the ultimate online Pickup tips click here.
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