Showing posts with label she wants to be your girlfriend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label she wants to be your girlfriend. Show all posts

Friday, October 15, 2010

Dating Again Without Getting Attached

Maybe you are coming out of a divorce or maybe you just broke up with a woman. You want to get back into the dating world but the last thing you want is to get exclusive with a woman to quickly.

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Meeting them and going on dates is not the problem, but once you hop in the sack, she starts acting like a girlfriend, wearing that girlfriend crown around, all proud and crap. She calls you if you don't call her, she wants to do your laundry and make you life easy. This really is sweet of her, but it also means now you feel responsible for her and you have the power to hurt her. Not a good feeling is it?

Ask yourself this though, were you sort of acting like the boyfriend? Were you calling her often, spending more time with her? Did you do like most men and go into that infatuation fog? You really weren't thinking of the future, you were lost in the moment and wanted to have sex.

Understand that women are naturally wired to bond and nurture, especially after sex. They start seeing that picket fence, strollers and babies often right from the very beginning.

If you really don't want to get involved so quickly, there are a few things you can do to keep her at a distance. Don't call her every day. Don't spend all of your free time with her. Call once, maybe twice a week. A text every now and then and take her out only once a week. Don't start sharing your day to day life with her. When you do all these things, she is going to think you want to be her boyfriend and trust me, she will start acting like your girlfriend.

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Then you try to tell her you aren't ready for a relationship and she freaks. What??? But you called all the time, you spent time with her, and you slept with her. How could you?

Dating really doesn't have to be so complicated. You can date more than one woman and have a good time. You don't have to commit to one until you find the right one.

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