Text Yourself Out of the Friend Zone!

Tired of hearing "I just want to be friends or you are like a brother to me"?  It happens, but if it keeps happening to you with the girl you like there is hope and it's so simple.  You can use text messages to heighten a girl's attraction and change her perception of you from friend to lover.

What is it that the bad boys do that get the girls.  Have you ever been one of those guys who was crazy about a girl who was crazy about a bad boy.  You probably thought you could bring her around by treating her nice and being a good guy.  It only makes sense right? 

Wrong.  She is already addicted to the adrenaline rush of the bad boy.  It's become her normal.  So when you come along being all nice and treating her the way she really should be treated, it doesn't feel normal to her.  This sounds crazy I know, but it's true.  There is no rule that says what feels normal has to be normal.

So to avoid getting in the friend zone, you may need to adopt a few bad boy behaviors and you can do this with text messages.  I am not saying to be a bad boy.  You can still be a nice guy and treat her well, but first you have to get her attention.  You can use a few techniqes in texting a girl to be effective at this.  The bad boys have many options therefore they don't prioritize one girl.  If a girl texts them, they don't always answer right away.  This tells the girl she may have some competition and this makes the bad boy more desireable.
 
What I am saying is to text the girls that see you as friends like they are girls you really aren't interested in that much.  Like you could take them or leave them.  You can prolong responding or you can not contact for a few days.  Let their imaginations wonder.  A woman falls in love in her imagination.  Think long term satisfaction over instant gratification.

The bad boys also tease and present themselves in a text as her hero in the nick of time.  You can learn these techniques, and still be a nice guy and get the girl.  Only difference in you and the bad boy is you will have what it takes to keep the girl because in fact you do know how to treat her.

You see you have to change her perception of normal slowly.  You can do this in how and what you text a girl.  I know guys who have swooned and got the girl by upping their texting game alone.  It's up to you. 

Text Yourself Out of the Friend Zone
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Text Her In The Mood

It's a common complaint from men.  Their wives or girlfriends aren't in the mood for sex.  While it's true that the stresses of life get in the way, not all is lost.  I am sure you know that sex for a woman is in her mind to a degree, yet it's her mind that keeps her out of the mood.

In other words you walking up behind her groping on her while she is in the kitchen will not get her aroused.  To get a woman aroused you have to get her out of her mind or the negative state she is in.  Once you get her out of her mind, you get in her mind and she gets into her physical body which is the body that wants sex.

So how do you do this and get her in the mood?  Being a woman I can tell you if I feel pressured to have sex, I won't enjoy it.  If I have sex because a man makes me feel guilty that I am not meeting his needs, it will cause resentment to build.  I will stop enjoying sex because it feels like an obligation.  This is what causes many women to stay out of the mood.  The stress of the pressure from their partners.  They associate sex with feelings of inadequacy. 

If you want to get her in the mood, you must take this pressure off.  To connect in the bedroom she must connect with you out of the bedroom.  She can't just turn the switch to turned on quite like you can. Hold her hand when you go anywhere together.  Touch her without being sexual.  Women love nice words, give her a few compliments.  Do this at random and you will see a slow change. These are just little things you can do to get her in the mood.

The creative thing that you may not even ever think about is to get the romance going during the day through text messages.  If you are like most couples you text things like what's for dinner, will you pick up some mild and so forth and so on.  Women are moved by words, so text her something that will get her attention, and no not a picture of your penis.  Tell her something like you can't stop thinking about how she looked this morning in her nightie or about the way she smells.  Be a bit risque.  Catch her off guard and you will get her out of her own head.

Text back the romance is a great way to get her in the mood.  Use it to build up anticipation and watch the different woman you come home to.  Texting can act as a trigger to get her out of her head and distract her and catch her off guard.