Texting is by far your easiest way to create sexual tension with a girl. You have time to plan and plot your words and your replies. You have more control over your results through texting as it gives you the element of time. Something you don't have face to face. When you are face to face with a girl, you have to be quick. You can't go do something else and then come back to her like you can with texting.
A lot of guys just go straight for the kill. They ask a girl out in the first few messages. This does nothing for sexual tension. Sexual tension is actually just build up and anticipation. If you just go straight for the kill, you miss this opportunity.
A fatal mistake that guys often make also is talking or alluding to sex early on. This is a huge turn off. You know we all want to be recognized for our brains and charming personalities. We know all men basically want sex, so you don't really have to allude to it or tell us about it in any form. Keep away from the sex talk. It works on men, but it doesn't build sexual tension in the least with women.
The idea is to keep her somewhat guessing. Flirt with her, don't be dull and boring. Do this without actually asking her out for days, even weeks. Next thing you know she will be telling her girlfriends about you. The conversation will be something like this. " I met this guy, he texts me, and he seems interested, but he doesn't ask me out". She will be asking her girlfriends how she can get you to ask her out.
By doing the above, you have are letting her imagination do your work for you. She will fill in the blanks in her mind. It's inside a woman's mind that the sexual tension is built. She is not sure she has your attention or attraction yet, and you know we all want what we can't have. Don't keep her guessing too long though and give her enough to let her know that yes, there will be a meeting soon.
In the meantime while you are texting a girl, you want to build a connection with her. You do this by playing on her emotional buttons. Talk to her as if you already know her. Tease her about some little quirk you noticed or a quirk that you suspect she may have. Pay attention to her and respond accordingly. Sexual tension for a woman is an emotional process, not a physical one like it is for a man. Understand the differences.
If done correctly the trigger to building sexual tension becomes your name appearing on her cell phone screen. She sees it is you texting her and she then associates those good vibes with you. You become the trigger.
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